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The best ways you can tell someone that you just want to be friends without hurting them
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The best ways you can tell someone that you just want to be friends without hurting them

When it comes to your friendship circles, one of the hardest things you can do is tell a friend that you don’t return their feelings. Romance can blossom even under the strangest circumstances, that’s why you need to follow your heart when it comes to actually want to return someone’s feelings. If you want to remain friends with them, you need to let them down in the nicest possible way. It’s impossible to get out of this situation without hurting someone, but here are the top ways you can at least soften the blow.

Be Blunt

When there isn’t an attraction there, there just isn’t an attraction. It’s not like you’re talking to one of the hottest cheap London escorts and you’re instantly attracted to her. Sure, you find your friend fun to hang out with. Just not enough to actually want to form a relationship with them.

If this is the case, it’s honestly best to just be blunt. Skirting around the issue can look disrespectful and can make you look pretty bad if you just end up leaving them waiting to hear an answer back from you. Just be blunt and let the person know exactly how you feel. If you let them know why you aren’t interested (in the kindest way possible) then this will be better than giving them “maybes” or just pushing away the issue. Tell them that you do still want to be friends.

One of the most important things you can do after you have spoken to them is to give them some space. You don’t want to be on their case all the time. Instead, give them some breathing room. If they still want to be friends with you then they will come back to talk to you

Avoid “bigging it up”

Honestly, telling someone that you just want to be friends isn’t as big of a deal as it seems. At the end of the day, you want to keep your friendship going without a relationship getting in the way of things. So, just keep things chilled out and don’t make it sound like it’s a huge deal. Keep the conversation calm and, if you can, make sure that you’re in a private setting. The worst thing you can do is have other people start sticking their noses into your business.  You don’t want to embarrass the person in question, so make sure not to answer other people’s questions about what’s happened. That way you can maintain the sense of privacy and respect the other person’s feelings until they feel ready to talk about what has happened.

Understand his reaction

The way you talk to the person about your feelings sort of depends on what kind of person they are. Some people are naturally more sensitive than others. So, if you are blunt to them, they may get more upset than you originally intended them to be. They may act with silence, angry or perhaps even be shocked that you didn’t feel the same way.

Now you need to understand how you can comfort them. If they’re quite shy or sensitive, you may need to give them some reassurance or light-hearted comments to make sure there’s no tension between you two.

Don’t apologise

One of the worst things you can do when telling someone you don’t feel the same way they do is apologise for it. What mistake have you actually made? You’ve not done anything wrong, so why act as if you have? You should never feel sorry about how you feel. You are not the victim of the situation and the other person should not try to make you feel bad about your feelings. So, just want to make sure to keep calm whilst you talk. It’s a difficult situation but it’s something you can get out of. Just remain calm and make sure the other person knows exactly how you feel.

Are you ready to tell them the truth?

No one likes telling other people that they cant return their emotions. That’s why you get so many romance movies centring around this point. Sometimes this sort of drama can break a friendship if it’s handled incorrectly. But if you go about it calmly and treat the other person with respect, as well as validate their feelings, your friendship should come out intact.

Good luck!

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